My dearest daughter, you are now a wife and soon you’ll become a mother too. Almighty
God bear me witness that I taught you how to cook, and do other house
chores. I taught you to respect men and to explain your anger when
necessary but if you do otherwise,i know you,not as a daughter but as my
fellow woman. My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a gentleman
but don’t take advantage of that. Don’t bring out the beast in him. My
daughter,you see this mark on my forehead? Your father gave it to me.He
tolerated me every time but on that day,He came unexpectedly.It wasn’t
his intention but i dared him and he hit me just once My daughter,Men
hate it when you use the word “YOU CAN’T DO IT”.He sure can do more than
but he’s just protecting you from harm. My daughter, whenever there is
an argument or misunderstanding, try drinking water.You can’t talk when
you have water in your mouth. Now,you have two families.You are very
lucky.Tolerate and appreciate them just as you did here. Learn to
welcome other people’s kids and soon, children will sorround your table
with love. You see that my big pot? I bought it when i still had no
child but i always cooked with it to feed those children who had nothing
to eat. Learn to show hospitality. Welcome a visitor and at least,offer
a glass of water.Don’t discriminate. Don’t shatter your husband’s
family. instead, bring them together. Learn to appreciate little efforts
and soon,they’ll learn to do more. Today,you are wearing a wedding gown
and you look so beautiful in it but there is still another gown you
need to wear.That is the MATERNITY gown. I wore it and you shall wear yours too. When you have a misunderstanding, don’t come back here.Sort
things out and build a happy home.I built mine and your father enjoyed
me. Men like food.They like both the KITCHEN food and the BEDROOM
food. Don’t deny him any of the food all because you had an argument. If
the ones i taught you are not enough, learn more!
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